I noticed today a topic intended to be a private conversation between two parties.  The original poster made up a big long title saying essentially This is Private Don't Look Except for the Intended Person.  Well, the original poster needs to wake up and smell the caffienated beverage of his or her choice: EVERY POST THAT IS NOT POSTED ON A PRIVATE FORUM IS PUBLIC.  AND KEEP IN MIND THAT EVERYONE HERE IS LIKELY TO BE A NOSEY PARKER AND LOOK ANYWAY.  THAT INCLUDES THE SITE ADMINISTRATOR. THERE WERE 28 VIEWS OF THE SUPPOSEDLY "PRIVATE" TOPIC BY THE TIME I FOUND IT (THREE DAYS AFTER THE POSTING).

Let this stand for a lesson to whomever needs it.  If you want a private discussion, use email. 

Oh, and I deleted the topic.